Thursday, March 13, 2014

Today I’m celebrating my 29th birthday…with the flu. While it certainly has not been the most pleasant way to spend the day, I have had plenty of time to reflect on a near decade of my twenty-something life. The past nine years have been filled with tremendous growth and opportunity along with some unexpected life changes that whilst painful and unforgiving, have led to more growth and opportunity.

I spent the first half of my twenties trying to gain control of my life: graduating from college, selecting a career path, working tirelessly to move forward on that career path and living life like a strong, independent woman. 

I spent the second half of my twenties trying to accept that we’re not always in control of our lives, that despite our best laid plans and work ethic, sometimes circumstances beyond our power have a different path for us to take and all the kicking and screaming in the world won’t change the new trajectory.




I’m excited to use this year to prepare—not just for my thirties—but for the rest of my life. I’m in a place both personally and professionally that’s most unexpected, but that somehow feels meant to be and I’m excited to embrace the possibilities and see where else they’ll take me.

So here’s my list of 30 things I’d like to accomplish (some already accomplished) before my 30th birthday next year:

  1. Get published in Bead & Button
  2. Enter Bead & Button’s Bead Dreams competition
  3. Take a metalsmithing class
  4. Take a wirework class
  5. Go to Bead & Button in Milwaukee, WI
  6. Go to the bead and gem show in Tucson, Arizona
  7. Bead with Sherry Serafini
  8. Bead with Laura McCabe
  9. Develop a regular, serious meditation practice
  10. Volunteer
  11. Buy a kayak
  12. Shop the flea markets in Paris
  13. Go wine tasting…how have I not done this in 29 years?
  14. Learn to knit…I want to make my own mohair scarves
  15. Keep a plant alive
  16. Finish the Agony and the Ecstasy…somehow the book feels more like the former and less like the latter and I haven’t been able to get through it.
  17. Pay for the person’s coffee behind me in the Starbucks line
  18. Treat myself to a quilted Chanel purse
  19. Get a dog
  20. Get my nose pierced
  21. Start a blog
  22. Visit an energy vortex in Arizona
  23. Become a certified yoga instructor 
  24. through 27. Personal goals that I’ll keep personal…a girl with a blog has to keep a few secret
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  28. Visit Las Vegas
  29. End my twenties with no regrets
  30. Celebrate my 30th birthday with great friends and family…Vegas, baby! Will I see you there?!
Let it Bead,
Marla

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Tuesday, March 4, 2014

NOLA: Eats & Entertainment


I had the opportunity to visit New Orleans for the very first time back in January. In celebration of Mardi Gras, I wanted to share with you some of my favorite restaurants and entertainment from The Big Easy.

famous "Blue Dog" painting
The first restaurant we visited was a recommendation from the concierge. We had just arrived at the hotel and it was too early to check into our room. So we walked a few blocks down the street to a minimalistic place called ROOT. It features modern American cuisine in Old World flavors and technique. We had the house-made charcuterie featuring “face” bacon served with pickled cauliflower and strawberries and artisanal mustard. I also had the best fish and chips of my life.

face bacon charcuterie at Root

The Palace Café is a classic New Orleans restaurant serving contemporary Creole food in an upbeat and lively grand café. Walking into the restaurant felt like walking into a party scene from The Great Gatsby. The wait staff wore black bowties and the tables were covered with white tablecloths. It was an instant throwback to old school NOLA. We attended a dinner party there our first night, so getting all dolled up in formal attire just added to the ambiance. The standout dishes from this restaurant included the turtle soup and white chocolate bread pudding, a NOLA original.

traditional street fare at the French Market

French Market
I spent one of my mornings strolling around the French Market, a large variety of artisan stands in the French Quarter. Some of my favorite stands included strands upon strands of colorful beads and jewelry made from salvaged metals found in the Hurricane Katrina wreckage. The surrounding stores house incredible artwork including jewelry, paintings and sculptures from local artists.

beads upon beads at the French Market

The atmosphere in this restaurant was incredible. It was colorful and fun with outstanding casual New Orleans seafood. I indulged in the shrimp and grits and a few dirty martinis. The best part about this restaurant, in addition to the exceptional seafood, is its location on Bourbon Street. Once you’ve indulged in dinner you can walk out the door and right down the famous New Orleans street for some evening and early morning entertainment.  

the original Cafe Du Monde

VIP City Bus tour
I know it’s got “tourist” written all over it, but I really do swear by city bus tours, especially when I have an extremely limited timeframe to take it all in. In less than three hours I was able to see the entire French Quarter, the neighborhoods affected by hurricane Katrina, St. Louis Cemetery No. 3, the Garden District and the Superdome. It’s a great way to get a little taste of everything in the city and then you can decide what you want to go back to and explore in more detail.

tombstones at St. Louis Cemetery No. 3 (there are three St. Louis cemeteries)

I had the most unique culinary experience here at Antoine’s, the country’s oldest family-run restaurant established in 1840. The meal started with Oysters Rockefeller, the famous baked oyster dish that was originated by Antoine’s founder from a recipe developed in 1889. The classic ingredients were whipped into a soufflé and served on the half shell. I also tasted a new fish for the first time—pompano, a mild flavored fish with a firm texture. After seeing crème caramel on the menu for dessert, it was an easy ordering decision. My grandmother fell in love with Antoine’s crème caramel back in the 70’s and when she opened a restaurant in the early 80’s she recreated the recipe for her own dessert menu. The sweet treat was very reminiscent of the dessert I used to watch her make in the restaurant kitchen when I was a little girl.  

Hurricane drinks at Pat O'Brien's

My aunt, whose favorite city is New Orleans, highly encouraged me to visit the classic watering hole of Pat O’Brien’s located on St. Peter and Bourbon St. After dinner one night, we stopped to have our fill of the world famous fruity rum cocktail known as the Hurricane. It was delicious! And way too easy to throw a few too many of them back.

storefront at Rev. Zombie's Voodoo Shop

Rev. Zombie’s Voodoo Shop
I was determined to find an authentic voodoo shop while I was here. While there were plenty of touristy voodoo shops that sold t-shirts and Mardis Gras beads, Rev. Zombie’s Voodoo Shop was definitely the real deal. I found everything from magical talismans, spell candles and even eye of newt. It’s located right across the street from Pat O’Brien’s, but I don’t recommend drunk shopping here…you might scare yourself in the morning when you review your shopping bag.    
 
entrance to the House of Blues

Maison and other jazz bars on Frenchman Street
After learning where all the great jazz bars are in NOLA (thank you VIP City Tour) we hunkered down at Maison on Frenchman Street. We sipped on Southern Peaches, a peach and ginger infused vodka with peach bitters, simple syrup, club soda and sprite—a cocktail fit for a southern peach—and got in the rhythm—or lack thereof—of the jazz music played by a variety of local jazz bands.

The Gumbo Shop on Saint Peter Street

All my life I kept hearing the story about my dad’s family eating at The Gumbo Shop during their trip to NOLA in the 70’s. Parts of the story I recall include eating Tabasco sauce on crackers to curb their hunger while waiting to be seated, consuming dozens upon dozens of raw oysters and the best. Gumbo. Ever.  On my last day in NOLA I found out my great aunt had passed away. She was one of the original Salezze’s to visit NOLA with the family back in the day. A little melancholy after the news and with a few hours before it was time to catch my flight, I decided a little New Orleans comfort food was in order and we ended up at, the award winning Gumbo Shop. Seriously, it was the best. Gumbo. Ever. Even more poignant was passing St. Louis Cathedral in Jackson Square on the way and slipping in to light a candle in honor of my great Aunt Erma’s memory. 

lit candle at the St. Louis Cathedral in Jackson Square

I couldn’t leave the city without indulging in beignets and café au lait, and where else but the original coffee stand at Café Du Monde. Beignets are square French-style donuts served hot and lavishly covered with powdered sugar. The café is opened 24/7 and has a limited menu of beignets and coffee. It is definitely a NOLA tradition not to be missed!

beignets & cafe au lait BEFORE
beignets & cafe au lait AFTER
What are some of your favorite NOLA eats and entertainment?

Let it Bead,
Marla

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Sunday, March 2, 2014


Let it Bead,
Marla

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Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Succulent Succulents

 























I definitely don’t have a green thumb. I even killed a lucky bamboo plant once. You know, the bamboo that hardly needs any water or sunlight or attention, yeah…dead. So as much as I love having live greenery around to freshen up my space, it really doesn’t last long. But one type of greenery I can keep going is this beaded bracelet I made using dagger beads the same beautiful color and shape as a succulent plant. It doesn’t need water or sunlight and it’s sure to grab attention on my wrist.















































Let it Bead,
Marla

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Saturday, February 1, 2014

In Memory of My GREAT Aunt Erma

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal,
Love leaves a memory no one can steal."
 
One thing I know for sure about my great Aunt Erma: she loved God, baseball and me…and not necessarily in that order.

I have so many wonderful memories of her. Many memories revolve around sporting events, church and food. All memories include lots of love, laughter and life.


 
I remember Aunt Erma saying, “There are two things you should never be late for: church and a ballgame.” We used to laugh that she went to church every day of the week, except for Sunday. “That’s the day everyone else goes.” she would say. As an avid and passionate sports fan, her TVs were always synchronized to broadcast the latest game. When we would attend a Penn State football game or Philles baseball game together—on time, of course—Aunt Erma would admire the player’s talent, while I admired the greatness that was a guy in uniform. And let’s face it, she did too.  


Aunt Erma was a world traveler, collecting experiences, photographs and even friendships that she shared with us when she returned home.  I always admired her quest for exploration and her interest in discovering new cultures, languages and traditions. I relished the stories she told me about kissing the Blarney Stone in Ireland, touring the pyramids in Egypt and hating the fish they served her for dinner in Russia. 


Aunt Erma was a delicious baker and she would always indulge us with her famous treats: peanut butter and chocolate chip scones (mine), Jewish apple cake (my dad’s), peanut butter tandy cakes (my brother’s), chocolate chip cookies (my mom’s) and sour cream apple pie (everyone’s favorite!).


Aunt Erma sat in the front row of some of the most important days of my life. She was my confirmation sponsor in eighth grade, she helped me move into my very first apartment and then later, my very first house, and she was always there to console me during times of loss and sorrow and to cheer me on during times of success and joy.  But I also enjoyed many every day moments with her, such as splitting a gallon of ice cream for dinner when I visited her in Summit Hill over the summer, attending Penn State tailgates where she would cast off her beverages to my underage self not knowing they were alcoholic, and baking with her during a SNAFU with the mixer that resulted in icing the entirety of my parent’s kitchen. 


I treasure the moments I shared with my dear Aunt Erma. It’s difficult to say goodbye to her today, for I will miss the new memories we would have created together. But I will cherish the moments that have made such a lasting impression on the young girl I was and the woman I am today.

Thank you, Aunt Erma, for sharing your sense of humor, your passion for adventure and your child-like spirit with us.

We love you, and you will be greatly missed, until we meet again. 

Rest in peace.   

Love,
Marla

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Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Finding Balance this New Year


I always look forward to New Year’s Eve for two reasons:

1. We can all start over with an internal clean slate and
2. It’s an excuse to dress up and have some fun.

I’m not big on New Year’s resolutions, but I am a fan of making goals for the New Year. I believe the only way to achieve things is to work hard for them, so while a resolution may just be a declaration, a goal insinuates action.

I’m declaring 2014 to be a new year filled with balance. In that vein, the chart below includes my balancing goals of less and more. Of course, an action plan accompanies it to aid in my follow-through.

Happy New Year! Wishing you much health and happiness this year.



Less buying/More beading
As a self-proclaimed shopaholic, buying less is hard to do. Since my bead stash is literally bursting at the seam, anytime I feel compelled to buy something, I can admire a clasp I just had to have. I can also bead something to compliment that clasp. I definitely want to increase my handmade beaded jewelry inventory this year so I’m prepared for the upcoming art festivals and trunk shows I have scheduled in 2014.

Less criticizing/More creating
I spend a lot of time and energy criticizing…myself, others, life, etc. That time and energy would be better spent creating things that enhance myself, others, life, etc. I have great plans to redecorate my office and studio, build display frames for my jewelry, and feng shui space in my basement for monthly game nights, to name a few.

Less dwelling/More doing
The last few years have definitely had their share of health issues for me and instead of dwelling on the past, things I’ve lost and life paths that have changed, I’m plowing ahead with the energy I have to build my businesses, Beaded Expressions by Marla and Stella & Dot and absolutely live life to the fullest my body allows me too.

Less junk food/More juice
Eating healthy, adopting diets and moving more is probably on everyone’s list…at least for the month of January. I realize all I need to do to work towards being healthy is to eat less bad stuff and drink more good stuff. The juice trend is in full force right now, but I believe in the healing benefits of fruit and veggies, even if I’m not really a full-fledged vegan hipster...yet.

Less over-thinking/More organizing
I have a lot of things to organize this year including my bead stash, my filing system (or lack therof) and my closet. And I absolutely refuse to over-think organizing them…It. Just. Has. To. Get. Done.

What resolutions or goals are you setting for 2014?

Let it Bead,
Marla

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